Put Me First Rootwork Candle cuts spiritual cords, severs trauma bonds, and helps you escape the hold of narcissistic lovers. Rootworked to break emotional chains.
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Baby, when you tired of crying, begging, and explaining yourself to somebody who don’t even see your worth—this right here is the work for you.
“Put Me First” is a rootworked fixed candle crafted for one purpose: to break you free from a narcissist’s grip. This ain’t no regular release candle—this one cuts cords, breaks trauma bonds, and helps you reclaim your power in silence and strength.
For folks trying to leave toxic marriages, emotional manipulators, and soul-tangling relationships where they always come last—this candle shifts the energy fast. It don’t just help you let go—it helps you remember who you were before they broke you down.
Burn this candle when:
• You tired of always doing the emotional labor
• You feel spiritually entangled with someone who drains you
• You’re trying to move on but keep getting pulled back
• You’re ready to put YOU first for real
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How to Use:
• Burn during a waning moon, early morning or late at night
• Place your name photo beneath it—or a photo of you smiling and free
• Anoint with oil if you have it, or place your hands over the candle and speak your intention aloud
• Repeat the chant during burn cycles
How to Use in a Ritual or Working:
1. Write your name and their name on a brown paper bag torn on all edges
2. Say this aloud and fold the paper away from you after:
Chant (Speak aloud):
”(Your full name), I call your power back from all who tried to take it.”
“Break the cords, break the ties, (Target’s name) no longer has a place in your mind or spirit.”
“You are free. You are free. You are free.”
3. Burn the paper in a fire-safe bowl (or tear and discard far from the home)
4. Let the candle burn in cycles until finished
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Rootworker Tip:
Add a drop of your own tears or bath water to the candle top before lighting for added strength. If you feel you’re still bound—repeat with fresh candlework for 7 days straight.
***DISCLAIMER***
DUE TO THE NATURE OF THIS WORK ALL CANDLES ARE FIXED TO ORDER. ALL ORDERS ARRIVE WITH INSTRUCTIONS.
By law, we are required to say that we sell these products as Curios. Products sold on this site are NOT to be internally digested, and that includes the herbs. This product is not meant to replace medical treatment or intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any type of disease.
ALL SALES ARE FINAL. NO REFUNDS. NO EXCHANGES.
🌟 Let's connect! Follow us @Worldofconjure for giveaways, flash sales, discount codes, freebies, inside peeks on new items, inspiration, and lots more! Instagram ~ Twitter ~ Facebook ~ TikTok ~ Patreon website: www.worldofconjure.com
In Love and Magick~
Shannon HaJira
Do not ingest and keep away from children and pets.
©️2009 World Of Conjure
We enforce our intellectual copyrights via DMCA, please be respectful of our hard work and do not use our photos, descriptions, etc without permission.

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Put Me First Candle | Narcissist Escape | Cut Ties | Rootwork Candle
Put Me First Rootwork Candle cuts spiritual cords, severs trauma bonds, and helps you escape the hold of narcissistic lovers. Rootworked to break emotional chains.
⸻
Baby, when you tired of crying, begging, and explaining yourself to somebody who don’t even see your worth—this right here is the work for you.
“Put Me First” is a rootworked fixed candle crafted for one purpose: to break you free from a narcissist’s grip. This ain’t no regular release candle—this one cuts cords, breaks trauma bonds, and helps you reclaim your power in silence and strength.
For folks trying to leave toxic marriages, emotional manipulators, and soul-tangling relationships where they always come last—this candle shifts the energy fast. It don’t just help you let go—it helps you remember who you were before they broke you down.
Burn this candle when:
• You tired of always doing the emotional labor
• You feel spiritually entangled with someone who drains you
• You’re trying to move on but keep getting pulled back
• You’re ready to put YOU first for real
⸻
How to Use:
• Burn during a waning moon, early morning or late at night
• Place your name photo beneath it—or a photo of you smiling and free
• Anoint with oil if you have it, or place your hands over the candle and speak your intention aloud
• Repeat the chant during burn cycles
How to Use in a Ritual or Working:
1. Write your name and their name on a brown paper bag torn on all edges
2. Say this aloud and fold the paper away from you after:
Chant (Speak aloud):
”(Your full name), I call your power back from all who tried to take it.”
“Break the cords, break the ties, (Target’s name) no longer has a place in your mind or spirit.”
“You are free. You are free. You are free.”
3. Burn the paper in a fire-safe bowl (or tear and discard far from the home)
4. Let the candle burn in cycles until finished
⸻
Rootworker Tip:
Add a drop of your own tears or bath water to the candle top before lighting for added strength. If you feel you’re still bound—repeat with fresh candlework for 7 days straight.
***DISCLAIMER***
DUE TO THE NATURE OF THIS WORK ALL CANDLES ARE FIXED TO ORDER. ALL ORDERS ARRIVE WITH INSTRUCTIONS.
By law, we are required to say that we sell these products as Curios. Products sold on this site are NOT to be internally digested, and that includes the herbs. This product is not meant to replace medical treatment or intended to diagnose, treat, or prevent any type of disease.
ALL SALES ARE FINAL. NO REFUNDS. NO EXCHANGES.
🌟 Let's connect! Follow us @Worldofconjure for giveaways, flash sales, discount codes, freebies, inside peeks on new items, inspiration, and lots more! Instagram ~ Twitter ~ Facebook ~ TikTok ~ Patreon website: www.worldofconjure.com
In Love and Magick~
Shannon HaJira
Do not ingest and keep away from children and pets.
©️2009 World Of Conjure
We enforce our intellectual copyrights via DMCA, please be respectful of our hard work and do not use our photos, descriptions, etc without permission.